Supporting your child’s learning happens in small, consistent moments throughout the day. The strategies below combine Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) , school-based best practices to help families build learning opportunities naturally. to help families build learning opportunities naturally.
- Build Simple, Predictable Routines
Clear and predictable routines reduce stress and help children understand what comes next. Use short, specific directions and visual cues when possible. Consistent routines—morning, homework, mealtime—give children structure and increase independence.
- Teach Skills Proactively
Instead of waiting for frustration or refusal, teach skills before they are needed. Break tasks into small steps, model the behavior, provide prompts, and reinforce success. A few minutes of proactive teaching prevent challenging behaviors and build confidence.
- Use Positive, Purposeful Language
Children learn from what we say and how we say it. Use clear, affirmative language inspired by The Power of Our Words:
“Walk inside” instead of “Don’t run,”
“Put the toys in the basket” instead of “Stop making a mess.”
Positive language supports cooperation and emotional regulation.
- Reinforce the Behaviors You Want to See
Notice and acknowledge positive efforts—trying again, waiting, using communication, following a routine. Reinforcement can be praise, a smile, access to a preferred activity, or shared time with you. Consistent reinforcement strengthens learning and motivates future success.
